ACROSS THE MILES

The hardest part in a relationship is when two people who are so in-love will have to part because the need calls for it...part in the sense that one has to go somewhere else to search for greener pastures.

People say that "two people can grow separately without growing apart." I always believe that this is true. For two people who are in a relationship, it is very important that both will not lose their individuality...their ideals...their principles...as a person. Getting into a relationship doesn't mean confining yourself within the parameters set forth for you by your partner nor setting aside your own ambitions in life. A relationship should be a venue for people to help each other reach their goals in life and not hinder them from doing so.

Life is so hard to deal with. Everything will only be a lot easier if you have someone to share the load with. And it's quite so sad if your loved one is so far away from you. Nevertheless, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's done in good faith. 'Coz it's true that every couple should save for their own future and save to make things happen in the future (like...wedding???children???).

Parting time for lovers is very difficult. (It pains me whenever it happens. No matter how many times you have experienced it, still it will always feel like the first time. It's hard to let go of somebody you really love even if you know in your heart that you'll be seeing that other person after sometime again...

The bottomline of all these is no matter how the odds look like in a relationship, if you love somebody, no amount of trials will surpass the love you have for each other...Just always think that what you do for each other is in preparation for having your own family in the future.

In a long distance love affair like mine, the only thing that you could really do is TRUST in your loved one and always be honest to each other no matter what it takes. Honesty will always be the best policy. (",)