ON WOMANIZING

One thing that has been bugging lately is the idea of womanizing. A married male friend told me he met a girl over the net and they decided to see each other in person. He stayed at her apartment late...so what did they do there then????....played cards????....talked about never-ending stories???!?!?!?

How come that men would decide to get married when they don't want to accept the idea of being faithful to their wife? Why can't men resist temptations that would destroy relationships?

Members of the male specie would even have the nerve to justify their actions by saying that womanizing doesn't involve any form of commitment...it's all game!

Yeah! Perhaps on the first time...but will it all end there?

Men would also say their favorite line that they are only humans! Womanizing is one of the human frailties and a lot are guilty of it! Women too!

My goodness!!!...If everyone will have the same thinking then I won't be surprised if one day this world be in total chaos...Everyone committing adultery everywhere...one after the other...Broken families will further multiply...More children will suffer because of the mistakes of their parents...Promiscuity will be viewed as something right!...So, where will Morality go?...trashed and forgotten!

The men out there might say that women drive them to commit adultery--to be unfaithful.

True but it doesn't mean that you have to give in to the temptation. Human frailty is such a lame excuse. No matter how pretty the temptation is...it will not better the man you are if you will give in to it!

It's just a matter of keeping your vows to your wife and to God. The latter being the most important.

No matter how many counts of unfaithfulness you commit...once, twice, thrice, nth times...adultery is adultery.

It's not easy to be honest and trustworthy...but once you have gained the trust of the person you "really love", it would mean everything.

And remember the idea of bad karma. It will gain up on you, PROMISE!